Q: I remember when I was a kid, there were 7 of us plus my parents. Since my mom and dad have both died, our family has become totally disfunctional. Its such a mess. What can I do to perk myself up other than work?
A: I have the same problem only it's when my Grandparents passed on. My family became chaotic. The best advice I can give is spend time with friends; friends are the family you choose and I know it doesn't feel the same, but try to spend time with people that you are "Thankful" for and make your "Merry"/Happy. Ok I know that was corny, but Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas. Also I find comfort in remembering the good times and being grateful I have those memories. Although at first it made me upset the holidays would not be the same I also realized many people don't even have the happy memories that I have.