Q: This will be the first set of holidays since my younger brother died. What are some ways to celebrate and preserve his memory?
A: after my little brother died we went on vacation so we could just relax and remember the good times without having to sit at home, in negative environment (since thats where he died). also his bday is 6 days before xmas so i think it was a good way to get away yet still have him there with us, since we used to like to go on vacation when we could when he was still around. my parents also usually decorate his grave around this time to celebrate his bday/xmas.