Q: I was just wondering if there is a specific "Aayah" or a "Dua'a" to ACTUALLY bond a man and woman in the relationship of a husband a wife! All I know is that they read some verses from the Quran and 2 witnesses from each side are to be present there and they have to sign on a paper and they take oath and agreement from both the bride and the groom! But, this can be done by Christians too, except this that they might read verses from the altered Bible! But there must be something for Muslims to islamically bond them into this relationship! Otherwise, anyone can start being a so-called husband a wife without a particular Islamic procedure! No silly remarks please! yeah, christians are less likely to beat up their wives etc, but instead, they divorce them or have an affair with another woman ( no offence to you)
A: The willingness of a man and female to marry each other in the presence of witnesses and agreeing on meher is the real bondage which bring them in arelationship of husband and wife.The reading of some verses are the sunnah.