Q: sexually harassed in public,like someone touched me intentionally.. should i scold him,and he may accuse me of lying and embarrass myself, or just ignoring it,but that means that i didn't mind what he'd done? i am very confused about this.any help? p.s.(going to the police is out of question as police men harass girls aswell) i dnt have brothers :'( last time i was out with my elder sister,and sth like that happened,she took her hijab pin and stabbed him in his hand ROFL @ignorant(sth)....thanks for the offer but no thanks,and wearing niqab won't change anything,many men will stay pervs as they are. @Pinky..dnt worry sis..u see? i answered the user above u before i read ur answer :):)
A: Wow, well I'm not sure where you live but for me, I am often alone. When I go anywhere, I make sure to avoid desolate areas and take the route that is more populated (filled with witnesses). You can carry some mace or pepper spray, they sell small containers that can attach to your key chain, always keep it easy to reach. If some one tries to mess with me, I turn around and give them a stern serious look into their eyes and ask them "What do you think you're doing?" If they do something else you spray them in their eyes and get away. Something good and bad nowadays is that there are cameras hidden in many public places. Oh and hijab/niqab won't really help you too much because there are many men who rather hurt the modest girl. It's more of a thrill for them because it really shouldn't happen. There is the excitement of taboo for them. I'm not saying that hijab/niqab is wrong or bad- - it is actually a *very* good thing. What I am saying is that should not be your only source of protection. You still need to be on guard all the time.