I want to wear hijab/scarf but negative thoughts keep coming to my mind that I will look ugly?

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A: I feel all women look feminine and dignified in hijab, and that's my opinion as a non-Muslim :) As far as surface beauty goes, covering balances out your form and draws attention to your eyes. People will generally treat you in a more dignified manner as well, because hijab is such an outward sign of piety. They are speaking to you and your eyes, not your body or gender. There are many styles to experiment with, and covering doesn't have to be costly. I bought my scarves at Wal-Mart and Target, and with layers and long tunics being in style now, you have many "in" options". I will also say that wearing hijab has been a very powerful experience for me, especially as far as empathy goes: During Ramadan last year I was actually afraid to wear the scarf a few times because of my job, and then I became even firmer in my stance that no one should have to worry about being harassed for covering. Especially on the job: it looks so professional! :) The sisterhood among other hijabi is very nice as well. May you be blessed in your choice.

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