Q: to a passover seder.what should i bring with me?

A: Come as you are, and with a lot of questions. The best seders happen when everyone at the table has something to say - and the seder is all about asking questions and getting explanations -- especially questions about what's going on. If you really feel you need to bring something, a bottle of kosher wine is always a nice choice. It's a little hard to find - you have to go to a wine shop and ask for it - but there are a lot of really good ones out there now.