Q: My birthday is in a few weeks , and I have no idea what I should get . I already got a laptop , acoustic guitar , keyboard , xbox 360 , electric guitar , and I cant seem to think of anything else that I want . I am turning 14 and I'm a girl . I love sports , music , singing , and shopping . What do you think I should get for my birthday ? I have a cellphone . My parents asked me to tell them what I wants , and they will get it for me , I just don't have any idea what I wants . How am I spoiled ? Just because my parents buy me a lot of things . It's not my fault they get me what I ask for . So my parents buying me things makes me a spoiled brat ? , buddy seriously get over yourself .
A: What should you get? How about love and attention? There is no entitlement to gifts. You listed "stuff". Once you meet your basic needs, which you apparently have, it might be time to look for the higher and more complex things in life - like giving back to your family, your community, your country. You will probably be the happier for it.