Q: recently my girlfriend went on her own to Greece for a week (I had to cancel because of work). I know she likes to party so "just in case" I bought her a packet of condoms. Ma paly say I'm crazy, but I like to be realistic, and while many girls may have a fling and keep it quiet, I quite frankly would prefer not to catch anything when she comes back. As it happens she die flirt with a Greek waiter, and they did sleep together once - not as good as she expected, but With a condom. I dont have a problem with that. He apparently looked great, but was pretty bad in bed and we both laughed about it a lot. We do have a great relationship, and are otherwise faithful with VERY few exceptions. So was I clever? or am I a fool as my mates suggest?
A: Every relationship is different- so if you both were ok with that and as you said she was safe and you laughed about it afterwards- then whats there to worry about!? Don't listen to your mates coz the relationships between you and her not them! But ask yourself would she be happy if the tables had turned and it was you sleeping with the waitress!? Either way, if your comfortable with it then there's no problem.