Q: what is the correct answer? there is no right or wrong answer it is only the person's perception in life...
A: Faith! To have total faith that Gods will is what is right. And, to accept his decisions...whatever they may be. Knowing that He knows best. Love! Love others. Love yourself. Love God, above all. And, no....I'm not a bible banger. lol Just passing on what I have learned. When I learned to accept the things in my life that happened....good or bad...and to realize that those things were His will....that they had a purpose in my life....I was much happier. Fighting against what is meant to be, is so futile. And, believe me....God is the one in control. Yes, we can make some decisions...are are expected to use our brains and logic. But, when I lost my Dad to cancer....I learned who is really in control. A lot of what makes us happy, is in how WE CHOOSE to look at a situation.