Q: I asked MY yahoo friends ..... do you know where santa is NOW ? TODAY (Jan 17th) i have received a violation notice for asking such a dangerous question. This MUST be a warning to you ALL. May i ask your advice..how do i "get over" this major mis-demeanor

A: I didn't know you could get violations for things such as that...my advice for helping you get over this would to maybe to just let it go, because holding on to any resentment is only just wasting time that could be better spent doing something that makes you smile..life is just too short otherwise...and chances are whoever it was that did this to you isn't even giving it a second thought, so there your anger and frustrations are wasted there too..good luck with this and I hope you have a wonderful 2008...;0)