Q: Should be realistic, affordable. by the way how do I change the topic/link from Christmas to Valentine's?
A: Realistic -- (and you can't purchase this) ... to be HONEST in your feelings for your Love .. to UNCONDITIONALLY Love them for themselves (and not for the things that they have) ... To remember to say "I LOVE YOU" each and every day to them .. To surprise them with a single red rose (or their favorite flower) To WANT to take them out every so often to Dinner, Event ... whatever .. and to actually BE with them through the whole event To COME HOME Every night ... and yes, give them the HUG that they crave ... the kiss that they want .. To HELP OUT with all the chores in the HOME ... and that means a 50/50 share! For a Home Cooked Meal ... perhaps you can do the yardwork (Raking, Mowing), for clean clothes ... perhaps cook them a meal for once ... ASK which TV Program they want to watch ... and SIT DOWN and watch it with them! Talk on the phone every day -- leave loving e-mail messages in their in-box ... let them HEAR the love in your voice ALWAYS be there to hold them through the worst of times ... and if they have nightmares/flashbacks (from past abusive relationships) ... HOLD them gently ... whisper in their ear that "Everything will be all right" ... "I'll be there for you" ... and BE there with your arms gently around them until the pain goes away ...